If Safe Mode works fine, then you likely have an issue with some third party software or a login item.

See if you have the same issues while booted into Safe Mode which disables third party Startup & Login items. If you give EtreCheck 'Full Disk Access', then the report will include more information including a summary of recent logs which may contain clues. To look for possible software issues you can also run EtreCheck and post the report here using the 'Additional Text' icon which looks like a piece of paper. FYI, MalwareBytes has an 'uninstall' option which can be found on one of the app's menus IIRC. MalwareBytes is the only exception to the rule. Stay away from all other anti-virus apps, cleaning apps, and third party security software since they usually cause more problems than they solve since they interfere with the normal operation of macOS. You can use MalwareBytes to scan your Mac if you believed you may have been infected with malware or adware, but there is no reason to keep it installed.

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